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Helfand and Associates
May 2012
Helfand & Associates  Newsletter
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In This Issue
Children & Divorce - How and When to Tell Your Children About Y...
Relationships: Build a Happy, Healthy Life Together - Part 2
Separation/Divorce Process - Making the Decision: Separation
Mediation - Is Mediation for You?
Divorce Financial Planning - 5 Tax Traps to Avoid During Divorce
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May  Joke of the Month:

A husband and wife are getting all snugly in bed. Their passion is heating up. Then the wife stops and says: "I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me."

The husband says: WHAT??"

The wife explains that he must not be in tune with her emotional needs as a woman. The husband realizes that nothing is going to happen and he might as well deal with it.

The next day the husband takes his wife shopping at a big department store. He walks around and has her try on three very expensive outfits. She can't decide. He tells his wife to take all three of them. Then they go over and get matching shoes worth $200 each. Then they go to the jewelry department where she gets a set of diamond earrings.

The wife is so excited. She thinks her husband has flipped out. She goes for the tennis bracelet. The husband says: "You don't even play tennis, but OK if you like it, then let's get it." The wife jumps up and down, so excited she cannot even believe what is going on. She says: "I am ready to go, let's go to the cash register."

The husband says: "No - no - no, Honey we're not going to buy all this stuff." The wife's face goes blank. "No Honey. I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while."

The wife gets really mad and is about to explode when the husband says: "You must not be in tune with my financial needs as a man!!!"

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The attorneys at Helfand & Associates and Divorce Magazine are pleased to provide you with this monthly e-newsletter and hope that the information and articles contained within are helpful, and supportive. The joke is also excellent.

Helfand & Associates provide skilled legal services for individuals, families and small businesses in the counties of Morris, Essex, Sussex, Passaic, Bergen, Hudson, Warren, Monmouth and Union counties and throughout New Jersey.

Firm News:

        Last month, I attended the NACBA (National Association of Consumer Bankruptcy Attorneys) Conference. I attended the New Jersey Bankruptcy Bench Bar conference on May 11, 2012 as approximately 25% of my practice is bankruptcy related. The focus is divorce/matrimonial law.

        We discussed, amongst other issues, the increased use of Chapter 11 Bankruptcy for individuals with secured debt over $1,081,400 and unsecured debt over $360,475, which causes the client to not qualify for Chapter 13. However, the BAPCPA law of 2005 makes an individual Chapter 11 plan similar to a 13, to ensure a certain level of uniformity and creditor protection.

        Chapter 11 does have significantly greater recordkeeping and filing requirements so it is more expensive; however, it is very effective in larger individual cases. Previously, attorneys would also often use multiple filings, Chapter 7 and 13, (known as "Chapter 20") to accomplish goals which could not be accomplished with one filing or another. The Court, however, is not fond of this practice and there must be a good faith reason to do this.

       

        Many times debt is what causes conflict between married parties. Often, if a bankruptcy is filed jointly, this takes a lot of pressure off the marriage and the parties stay together. If this does not work, there are also various bankruptcy issues during a divorce and post-judgment which can be handled by our firm. The bankruptcy law is quite favorable to supported spouses and children. The family is a priority.

        In this rough economy, Debtors often have more significant and complicated debt issues: large homes with multiple mortgages, tax debt, marital issues, lawsuits, foreclosures, and mortgage modifications that cannot be finalized. At Helfand & Associates, we are very familiar with handling the issues of the individual debtor, with both simple and complex circumstances in and outside of a divorce.

 

            Thanks. Have a great month.

TANYA


Parenting & Step-Families :

Effective parenting tips for people with children of all ages. (Read more)


Divorce Recovery :

It is not about the one who is being forgiven, it's about the person who is doing the forgiving.

(Read more)


Considering Divorce: The Grief Progression
The five stages of divorce, similar to the five stages of grief. (Read more)

Separation/Divorce Process:
The divorce process itself is critical to the future well being of your relationship.
(Read more)

Finance and Divorce:
Here's help navigating the financial dangers of divorce so you'll reach safe harbor: a financially sound future.
(Read more)
Thank you for reading our eNewsletter. Please remember if you need to have an experienced attorney on your side do not hesitate on give us a call at (973) 428 0800 for an initial free consultation.
Sincerely,

HELFAND & ASSOCIATES

Tanya N. Helfand, Esq.

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